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Why do Men like if Rough?

You would think Men would like for their woman to be mild and soft-spoken, submissive and catering to his every need, right? HELL NO! They will tell you that shit but it’s bullshit. Just try it for a week, I dare you and your ass will be bored, ignored and he will be acting like an ass. Just as soon as you get a tad bit bitchy, or spicy with his ass, disagree with every other word, you getting roses, flowers and good sex. WTF! I don’t understand… Does this change as men mature? Maybe, but do they ever really mature? Hmm…

Okay, before I get slammed with rude remarks from the men, let me be clear on this… Most men who are not ready to settle and do not know what they really want from a woman don’t seem to find a balance in relationships. They tend to cling to drama, very opposite from what they say to their homeboys and you if you ask them. They respond quicker to a woman who don’t take shit than one who will lay down for him… I am not talking out of my ass but what I know, from what I have experienced. Now once you meet a man who is more settled and knows what he wants from a woman he will be more balanced. Let’s not get it twisted though he too, will desire a little bit of spice as well though. You just have to keep men on their toes…they love challenges. Just don’t give them too much if you want to keep them around.

How to submit to your man next…

 

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Posted by on July 4, 2012 in GROWN & SEXY, Life, LOVE

 

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Is it ever okay to check the other woman or man?

Had a few recent incidents where the “”girlfriend”" felt the need to check the other woman. Why do we do this? Duh we are insecure, or just feel we have the right, or just damn it want to know. Now some people will argue this and say if you are the Wifey then you have every right, I totally disagree. However, there is only a few circumstances where this opinion will be altered. Lets talk about that at the end.

Don’t get me wrong I have checked a foot-dragger a time or two but damn I felt worse after the fact. Yes, it was when I was married and my husband decided to have an affair. Anyways…

Women it is never a good look and it shows a sign of weakness and more than anything it waves a big flag that reads I AM SO INSECURE! Don’t do it…check his ass or check him out of your life. Why deal with the bullshit from the cackling hen on the other end…Now days these women so slimy they don’t confirm shit for you so it’s a waste of time to think you will confirm what you already know… **he’s cheating** duh, is he fucking her? probably more than likely! Because unlike women who seeks an emotional affair a man seeks sex! LOL… he don’t have a sideline just to cuddle… sorry if you thought that!

At the end of your cat fight with the other woman what do you accomplish? A bunch of nasty words being thrown, feelings hurt and you still with the cheating man… Now if this woman is calling you, texting you or coming all up in your space or if she is a friend, family member or within a close circle and knows you exist then this becomes an exception because now you checking her ass for being disrespectful not the fact she’s fucking your man but of course that will add fuel to the fire…

**I shall continue this later** trying to get cute at them moment…lets talk about it!

 
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Posted by on July 4, 2012 in Broken Hearts Bleed, Life, LOVE

 

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WTF is wrong with me?

Okay, today I was having one of those”whats the fuck wrong with me” moments! There has got to be something wrong with me when every where I go there is always someone who doesn’t like me. I can just walk in a room and take a quick survey of the room and I spot a few rolling their eyes! Damn! I haven’t even said anything. I walk up the side-walk to work and I can hear chics whispering about how I swing my hips. Blame my damn momma, she gave me this walk! UGGHHHH

Anyways~ I texted my guy and told him that maybe something is wrong with me. Maybe I just need to re-evaluate myself because every where I go people just seem to have an issue with me. Not everyone but always one or two!

He texted back: When you are as pretty as you are you will always have that reaction!

Well hot diggity dog! He surely made my day! LOL

I continue to be me and treat people with respect! Today I had to realize that some people are just miserable in their own lives and look for reasons to hate when people like me only want to be loved!

 
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Posted by on December 8, 2011 in Life

 

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FRIENDS?

People never seem to amaze me with their extreme attempt to pretend to be a friend. I have quite a few of people who just seem to stay in my circle as if we are friends. Actually they are as bad as my enemies, yeah I got those too. These people will laugh with you, call you periodically, and try as hard as they can to get your business. They want to be the Top Newz Reporter of your business. Why? What benefit do they get from this? Beats the hell out of me, I don’t get it. They don’t like you they are jealous of what they think you have…be careful. They are not your friends. Can you relate?

**I need to dive more into this subject for real** I’ll be back this evening! LOL

 
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Posted by on November 23, 2011 in GROWN & SEXY, Life

 

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WHAT MAKES A GOOD BLOG?

Still stuck on the subject! I write about many things here and I haven’t been able to just write on one subject for a solid week yet! I mean I watch my views go up and down. I monitor who subscribe and who follows, being the analytical person I am…I just been trying to find out what my readers like! Instead I find myself off key with writing based off of my mood or what’s going on around me at the time. Are you doing the same here?

Well we all know sex is a sure hitter for views to go up to the ceilings…I can get a hundred views or more a day off of that subject but my life is not filled with enough of it to talk about it everyday! Maybe I should do it more often! LOL Just kidding…

I was surprised to know Parenting Bratts does pretty well though…I want to share with as many people as I can so I think I may take my blog to another level here soon.

Talk to me readers and bloggers…

email me at serenitysmith98@yahoo.com or just leave me a comment!

 

 
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Posted by on October 30, 2011 in Dear SerenityLuv emails, Life

 

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