Hope everyone has had a great weekend and enjoying this holiday. All is well with me. I still read my favorite blogs…blogging has just been far down on my list lately. But I miss all my readers who always comment and hope to continue to connect with tou guys on your blogs. I wont tell that lie again…yeah that one…where I say I will try to blog more. If I do it might be about something other than my personal life. Lol…
Tag Archives: BLOGGING
Listen, most people who follow your blog has it linked to their smartphones. Geesh but some of you blow it up with 10 post a day and all at the same damn time…Come on, I can’t keep up with that when I am following several others. I mean 2 a day is all good or I even have one guy who was telling his story but he would release like 3 or 4 a day but it was like every 3-4 hours apart! They were fairly short entries and it was something you were waiting on the edge of your seat for the next entry anyway!
I’m not the best blogger and some days I have so much to say and I want to just write you guys all day but I know if I do that either you will be pissed off from the influx of emails on your phone or lose track of which one you want to comment on. But if that works for you then keep it up but I’ll just have to reset you to never instead of instant on the email part and try to follow you manually!
Another thing Social Kenny taught me is waiting to approve every comment is the pits too. Because then others can’t see comments until you approve them and if you work a hectic schedule like me, that could be hours later…ruin your flow of comments.
Do you guys think it hurts your blog to skip a day or two? I’m thinking I need a day of just catching up with other blogs…Because I know some of you are like that heffa hasn’t been on my blog in a minute…Let’s discuss all the things you hate to see happen within a blog. Even if its something I do I want to know…
Here is a few throwbacks…take the time to read as my workload has become extremely heavy this week. I will continue to read you all blogs and comments. I will be replying and commenting later in the day for the next few days but don’t stop commenting because it gets me through the day. Yet, I think I need to try to keep my job (stop sneaking at my desk)! LOL!
- My First Love
- I wish we Never Met
- Red Flags we Ignore
- Why u Hate his BabyMama
- Broken Hearts Never Stop Bleeding
- Bitter Sweet
- We View Sex Differently
I woke up this morning and grabbed my cell phone as normal only to find one of my fellow bloggers has made her last entry! At first I thought damn here we go…but then I had to realize most people will blog for a phase in their life then stop. Most of us write for a release and some of us just write for fun but at then end of the day it is a type of release. It’s just like my second life on IMVU people come and go there and it often makes you a bit sad to see some of them go but you know that people have to do what’s best for them.
I have thought about shutting down this blog or moving to a completely ANON blog but then I would risk losing my favorite followers. My mom asked me once, what are you hiding from? I couldn’t answer that question…
Anyway blogging is probably at its best when you keep personal friends and family out of it…because you can’t truly be as open and honest knowing everything you say can be tracked, right?!
Anyway I am just rambling on and on here…NOBODY ELSE IS ALLOWED TO LEAVE ME TODAY…
MISS U MUCH **KEEPINGITREAL** WISHING U ALL THE BEST!
I have been having issues with.commenting from my phone, so all my comments and response will be delayed until I can reach my laptop! Ughhh, I hate this. Sorry guys… U know I be sneaking and shit, then to retype shit over and over is not helping! Team frustrated! Lol
I have been working so damn hard and all in love and shyt I can’t sit still to write a post. LOL! Welp! I have to admit too…I been reading more blogs then I fall asleep and never tend to my own. I will be posting a few things tonight. I been thinking about different topics other than sex **imagine that**! Well as you can see no post have been made. HA!
My EX has decided to try to be friends for the kids. I am a bit on the fence with this one because in the past he has always had motives so we will see how this goes. I would love to have a working relationship with him for the kids but nothing pass that. It would help if we were on the same page as we still got more years of raising our kids. Am I wrong for saying to him…he need to start by getting them every other weekend?! Shit it’s been almost 3 years and he only have kept them 1 weekend. Lordy, It would be nice to get a break on the regular. Maybe I can get some much needed me time. Yet, I won’t jump up & and down just yet because we still got his chic who I still truly believe don’t want my kids to her house (which is where he lives)! And I can’t count out the fact that there is some monetary motives that can be lurking here as well. I mean he do pay a nice chunk of child support. I don’t give a damn if he lick me dry…I still will have my hands out for my child support! Shyt these kids cost me lots of money!
Anyway that is one of the events that have taken place with me lately…the other involves my sweetie and as you can see I pretty much keep our relationship a bit private. **giggling*
Blogging is no fun without all the interesting comments. Don’t be afraid to comment on people post. Even if you don’t agree, this is where you should be able to voice your opinion with no remorse. I have read blogs and felt slightly reluctant to leave a comment and then I was like what the hell! A few times people came back and expressed to me I was wrong and they didn’t agree with my comment but then they became open to my view of things later. This is what blogging is all about. People want to hear what you want to say! SO LEAVE A COMMENT….Likes are nice too but when you get a chance leave your thoughts. Some post there is not nothing I can say though because I am not going to just write something to write it. The post has to get my attention.
Just my thoughts for today!
Whoa! You guys has been producing some good shit to read here lately. I been on my grind trying to make this money, but still sneaking and reading blogs from my cell phone! Lawd help me, I am addicted. Some of you have really came out of a shell though. (laughs) Anyways, Serenity has been taking some pleasure time for herself. Embracing the love that is surrounding her and at the same time preparing for the next move in her life. Yup! I been looking at things from all angles. Still dating the same guy as he stolen a piece of my heart. I am getting closer to saying Yes!
My children are still being teenagers, running my ass wild. Yet, they are working harder on their grades. My daughter (the artist) has created a piece of Art that will be featured in her school Gallery showing next week! YAY **singing I am so proud of her**The oldest girl is still be bossy but striving hard for great grades and well the baby girl is stilling being the little show stopper she is. This little girl has more damn personality than all of them combined she makes you love her! LOL!
**MOMMY MOMENT** So I called home today to check on the kids and the youngest answer the phone and some strange way we ended up on me telling her to SAY NO TO DRUGS as a joke. She was like Um I know to say NO to Drugs, NO to Sex and NO to anything I don’t want to do. And I know where all my NO NO Spots are! WTH!! **no no spots (too cute) shrugs…maybe just to me.
Funny my son text me and I swear the boy been reading my blogs because he refers to his sistas as the BRATZ! He tells me often he do not want any children ever because of them! LOL (he’s only 12)
I’ve been getting messages from an old friend and Um think it’s time he knows that he has been placed in the friendzone and his chances of getting a piece of ass from me has went from slim to none to none! OOPS, SORRY!
I just been having so many interesting things happen over the last few days all of which is helping me decide to move forward with the next step in my life!
Just looking back on when I first started blogging and here’s what I found. If you haven’t read them go ahead. I think I’ve grown a lot since then but it’s still me and my thoughts! Just something for you guys as I am not feeling well these last few days. Migraines kicking my ass and I ran out of my prescription. Work tomorrow so I better get myself together. I been reading most of the new post just haven’t been able to comment, sorry! I’ll be on it as soon as I can.