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DEEP BREATHS, WE ARE ALMOST THERE
Are you sitting home watching the kids rant & rave about the first day of school. Yeah that’s what I’m doing and Wow I’m almost as excited as they are! They have stuffed book bags, now trying on their first new outfit and keep asking me the same questions over and over. OMG! Go to bed already! Whoosa… Just kidding, I’m loving every minute of it as I think back to when I was their age acting the same way.
Time is about to get busy with homework and after school activities and work…I’m ready! I’m Ready! Are you?
I Wish We Never Met!!
I wish I had never met you! If we had never met, I wouldn’t have ever loved you. And if we had never met I wouldn’t be sitting here trying to erase the memories of us growing up, laughing, sharing secrets and falling in love. If we had never met I would have never lost my best friend. If we had never met I wouldn’t have to look at these sad faces that walk around the house and call me mommy. I just wish I had never met you. I wouldn’t feel lost and suffer from a broken heart. I would not be guilty of causing you pain. I would have been just fine not knowing you, not feeling the deepest love that once breathed inside me that now feels suffocated. If I we had never met sleeping would be easy and my heart would be whole again! Wow, I really do wish we Never Met. I wish you were not My First Love….
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Where’s My Damn Ring
When I was younger being called his “wifey” was cute when I was just his girlfriend. Now I’m over 25yrs old and I’m not going to play his “wifey” without the ring! Someone asked me was the ring the most important ~I was like, Um no but what it stands for is… Men like to play mind games they call you “Wifey” and next thing you know you are performing all the “wifey” duties without the benefits. If I cook for you, clean for you, & sex you on the regular I’m doing “wifey” duties. Some people may disagree with this but listen when dating someone you really like or love you should give them a sample! Example: Let me cook for you here & there, maybe do your laundry once or twice & of course you got to Sample this #1 Sex Game (lol)! But when you see him just getting comfortable put on the damn breaks….WHERE IS MY DAMN RING?
Are you in a dead end relationship? Are you a live in “WIFEY” without his last name? How do you end the never-ending story of it’s not time yet! A lot of Men are afraid of committment and they will avoid it as long as they can~ now does this mean you should force it on them? I say no if a man love you enough and want to spend the rest of their life with you he will propose. You just need to be clear in your communication on what you want in life and after that do what you got to do! Those are my thoughts…..
Ex Factor
What do you think is the real issue when your mate is so concern with their EX? I mean at some point his or her EX should not be the Discussion of the Day! If so , you clearly have a problem here. Either they are still in love with them or doesn’t know how to let Go and Move on. Do you really want your foundation to be built on their past relationship?
Some of us seem to think we have moved on, but we are still sleeping with our EX from time to time. Well I’m here to tell you they still got you under their control. Late night conversations or arguments is still just another way to keep them in your life.
A relationship is like a home-it should be built with a strong foundation. Love should be your floor, Trust should be your walls & Honesty should be what is living in it. That is a BRICK HOUSE. If your home is built of anything else be careful because the first storm that comes along your home will come tumbling down.
My thoughts are if I find myself in this situation where my man won’t move forward and I feel like I’m constantly trying to fight for my position in his life due to the EX-Factor; I’m getting the Hell out of that disaster of a relationship. I don’t want to be anyone doormat!
FALLING IN & OUT OF LOVE
Remember what made you fall in love in the first place, sounds simple, right? NOT!
You can remember the place, the time and what you were doing and you may even remember what you were wearing. Yet, what is important is to remember that feeling. You know like~
I remember when he would touch me and my heart would race like a wild horse or even when I would hear his car pull into the driveway Hell, even when I would hear his special ring tone set in my cell phone.
Oh and the morning after love-making, sitting at my desk at work smiling thinking about it!Ooh and when it was really good I would be at work crossing my legs trying to stop that “thump” between my legs. Yall know what I’m talking about that thing that have you wiggling ready to take a long lunch break! LOL!!
~And when we had an argument it never lasted long because we were so in love we couldn’t stand to see the pain or hurt in our face. We cared so much until we messed up them crisp sheets making up for hours…Oh Yeah now I remember…Gotta Go Be Right Back!
I’m Not in the Mood Tonight!
I remember the days when you would rub against me in the kitchen and I was ready. Skipping a day was like not eating. But now with the kids, the house, the BILLS! I’m just not in the Mood…
Have you been there? Are you there now?
Well ladies men work off of sight and touch (the physical) and we are pretty much emotional creatures as they all call us. Stress will sure enough make us say I am Not in the Mood way too much! I’ve learned that a relationship is built offf of 50% of communication and 50% sex. YEAH THATS WHAT I SAID! (without getting into religion)
If he is not doing it right for you then tell him in a way that doesn’t crush his Eago. I understand that for us our lack of desire starts outside of the bedroom. Don’t let a Jody come along and steal your happiness with your mate. Per my male friend definition of a Jody (if you are wondering) This is that person that comes along when things are not so good in your relationship and do all the things your mate is complaining about or say you not doing…they do whatever it takes to win him…Even though most of the time they turn out to be no good…
but back to the subject…You need to find a way to get in the mood-you need that bond that connect with your mate it is important!
Stay tuned for continuation on Tips on How to Get in the Mood
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