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PARENTING BRATTS/ Mommy got a Favorite

25 May

These are my two youngest teenagers… I don’t put their faces on the internet. But these two are a mess. First of all the one in the green was having her first dance and I had bought her two dresses and she decided she would where the green and blue dress. The other one in brown decided she would get dressed in the other just because…smh! This is what I deal with all the time. These two are so close in size ( 0 & 00) they constantly fuss over who jeans is who’s and so on. I have 3 girls so I have always kept them color coded (clothes wise) but they seem to still fight over the clothes anyway or any stupid stuff. I didn’t have sisters in my house so I am not used to this…

Raising kids is no joke! Now the new thing is that I am being accused of having a favorite. The problem is the name of the favorite change every other week. I promise them I can’t stand them all the same and love them all because I can’t help it but they just won’t believe me! Ugggggggggggggggggh

 
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Posted by on May 25, 2012 in LOVE, PARENTING

 

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Meds for Stress

14 May

I been avoiding this subject with my doctor. Im here now and I think its time I ask for something. The lack of dick in my life and added stress because of one on top of raising 3 teen heffas… I think has made me consider it. Im on the edge lately… What do you think about pills for stress, anxiety and so on??!

 
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Posted by on May 14, 2012 in Life, LOVE, PARENTING

 

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Signing off

13 May

Ill be offline possibly for a few days to get my thoughts together…please continue to read, comment & post. I will try to peek in on you guys from time to time… I know I am behind on a few of you guys blogs… My mind is very cloudy at the moment.

 
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Posted by on May 13, 2012 in Broken Hearts Bleed, Life, LOVE, PARENTING

 

Student on life support after jump from bus

05 May

Student on life support after jump from bus.

This is just so sad…without knowing the full details of it all. What are we doing wrong with our children with our future? How do we fix it? This makes a mother heart do flips and it just makes worry about the choices I make everyday when parenting my children. Am I teaching them the right things? Am I loving them enough? Can I trust them to make the right choices… just a sad thing.

 
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Posted by on May 5, 2012 in Broken Hearts Bleed, PARENTING

 

PARENTING 101

27 Mar

I raise my  hand to say I am not perfect…and I wondering if I am just mean as hell or what. My son father has been asking to pick him up recently and spend time with only him. He doesn’t want to get his other 3 kids. He claims he can’t afford to get them all or they are teenagers and because they are girls they don’t need him. Deep sigh! Everything in me disagrees with this bullshit, but maybe I am wrong. The other thing is that he likes to get my children and not disclose where they will be residing at or traveling to…this is an issue.

Divorce with children are the pits of hell. I don’t know what’s the best thing to do but I think it’s bullshit to pick and choose with child you want to parent because of gender. Ugghhh…do I have that fucking options…Hell No! **I am not complaining, whining nor bitching just mildly venting*** and my rants continues…Shouldn’t I be entitled to a fucking break? Can’t he just come every other weekend and get them all…I’d like to just breathe for a moment. Shit I don’t care if his chic don’t like the kids and locks up in her room, shrugs, that’s her dumb ass! I just want help raising these four little people that he begged me to have…shut the hell up I know I was a willing participant! **squeezing my legs tight as hell** thinking I should have done that back then. What do you think? Am I being a cold-hearted bitch? (lawd did I just become a hypocrite as well) I need a nap again…here comes the drama!

 

 
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Posted by on March 27, 2012 in Life, PARENTING

 

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I had Twins!!

18 Mar

OMG! It was an amazing weekend for me. I worked Saturday and I was not feeling that great, think my body was just tired. Then I got a text from my sister asking if I would like to keep the twins…my 1 year old niece & nephew. I couldn’t turn that opportunity down. I kept them overnight and it was so much fun. I miss those moments with my kids.

OH WAIT!  DID U THINK I BIRTHED TWINS? HELL TO THE NO! LMAO~ Anyway back to my story (giggles) My dog seemed a bit jealous though. I am going to break him out of that…I think he was coming around, but I take no chances with him tho. These little people were so funny! Twins are such a gift. They have so much personality. And I was surprised at how helpful my children were with them. They enjoyed them too…so much love was in my home this weekend. (something new for us as far as babies in the house)

Oh and I started my 7 day detox, not sure if I am going to be shitting all over the place but I hope not. I am taking the 7 day detox  called be-cleansed. The kit is supposed to remove toxins, reduce bloating and excess water, support digestion, helps with digestion of starchy foods, aids kidney and urinary tract health. **now this is what the box says** This includes a 40z liquid that must be mixed with 4 oz of water, I have to drink this dark green stuff twice a day for the first two days. And for 7 days I take 4 pills. They included a meal plan that would increase my chances of losing more weight and cleansing I suppose. And here comes the bull crap**WHAT** Eat Right? WHY? LOL!!! Yeah I am going to try to do most of the meals and at least eat right for the next few days. I need to get rid of the extra belly…if I have to shit it out…I don’t care! Otherwise Game ON!! Somebody will pay for mommy a tummy tuck! I’m just sayin…

Update on my social life…………………………………………………………ok the end…

Love life, we are raising the bar…things are going swell, quite dandy! WOOHOO! **giggly & cheesy ova here

KIDS AKA BRATTS, are doing the norm making me proud and pissed all at the same time…Love my babies though!

Work~ well same ol’shit working me like a mule…

I think that is all folks…

 

 
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Posted by on March 18, 2012 in Life, PARENTING, Weight Loss

 

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One of my Favorite Artist~ (Bratt Work)

15 Mar

My daughter had two pieces of her work make it in the Art Gallery at her school. She also had a piece selected to go on display at a local Museum.  I was so proud. These are the things that make me smile after I spend all my money on Art supplies, Enrichment Fees, and numerous hours of devoted time. I have to say she’s one of my favorite Artist because my youngest is quite the Artist as well. Each one of my children have a different gift and I am so blessed because when I was in school I never quite figured out mine. LOL! Still haven’t actually. Oh well…anyway…I thought I’d share with you guys.

This was somewhat of a self-portrait, yet I think she made her face a little fuller since she wants to be thick but don’t seem to be able to get pass a size 1! HAHA!

** By the way this is her first year in High School** 9th grade….

 
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Posted by on March 15, 2012 in LOVE, PARENTING

 

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The Brat wants to Date!

15 Mar

So my daughter is 16 and she have been to the movies a few times with this one boy. I would either go with them or sit in another movie or drop her siblings off with her. I think she has had one movie date by herself. And I arrived early to pick her up, sitting in the parking lot to make sure she comes out of the movie and take no detour. I am just a bit over protected of my children, so others claim! Yet, I just don’t want to give her too much room for error. **I know, I know, they got to make their own mistakes and all. I just want to try to prevent some of the big ones.

So this boy she is so hung up on…I think he really respects her and like her. He comes from a pretty respectful family, well-groomed type. SO WHAT!!!  All boys are boys to me when it comes to my daughter.

This time she tells me well she wants me to drop her off to a dinner date but asks if it is okay for his Grandfather to drop them off to the movies after that (which is like 2 blocks away) Umm NO!  AM I BEING TOO MUCH? Hell I said if  I allow her to do dinner and a movie…I will come and escort her tail to the movies. How am I suppose to know the grandfather will pick her up and how am I suppose to be sure she will end up at the movie and not in the backseat of some friend car or house or some shit! NONONO…. I trust my daughter but I don’t trust the world we live in…

Lord help me I am not read for all this dating crap…she keep telling me she is about to be 17 this year…and I tell her well we haven’t got there yet.

 
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Posted by on March 15, 2012 in PARENTING

 

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Blogging & my Baby Daddy!

14 Mar

Hello Everyone,

I have been working so damn hard and  all in love and shyt I can’t sit still to write a post. LOL! Welp! I have to admit too…I been reading more blogs then I fall asleep and never tend to my own. I will be posting a few things tonight. I been thinking about different topics other than sex **imagine that**! Well as you can see no post have been made. HA!

My EX has decided to try to be friends for the kids. I am a bit on the fence with this one because in the past he has always had motives so we will see how this goes. I would love to have a working relationship with him for the kids but nothing pass that. It would help if we were on the same page as we still got more years of raising our kids. Am I wrong for saying to him…he need to start by getting them every other weekend?! Shit it’s been almost 3 years and he only have kept them 1 weekend. Lordy, It would be nice to get a break on the regular. Maybe I can get some much needed me time. Yet, I won’t jump up & and down just yet because we still got his chic who I still truly believe don’t want my kids to her house (which is where he lives)! And I can’t count out the fact that there is some monetary motives that can be lurking here as well. I mean he do pay a nice chunk of child support. I don’t give a damn if he lick me dry…I still will have my hands out for my child support! Shyt these kids cost me lots of money!

Anyway that is one of the events that have taken place with me lately…the other involves my sweetie and as you can see I pretty much keep our relationship a bit private. **giggling*

 

 

 
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Posted by on March 14, 2012 in Life, LOVE, PARENTING

 

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Here’s What I’ve Been Thinking~

10 Mar

Whoa! You guys has been producing some good shit to read here lately. I been on my grind trying to make this money, but still sneaking and reading blogs from my cell phone! Lawd help me, I am addicted. Some of you have really came out of a shell though. (laughs) Anyways, Serenity has been taking some pleasure time for herself. Embracing the love that is surrounding her and at the same time preparing for the next move in her life. Yup! I been looking at things from all angles.  Still dating the same guy as he stolen a piece of my heart. I am getting closer to saying Yes!

My children are still being teenagers, running my ass wild. Yet, they are working harder on their grades. My daughter (the artist) has created a piece of Art that will be featured in her school Gallery showing next week! YAY **singing I am so proud of her**The oldest girl is still be bossy but striving hard for great grades and well the baby girl is stilling being the little show stopper she is. This little girl has more damn personality than all of them combined she makes you love her! LOL!

**MOMMY MOMENT** So I called home today to check on the kids and the youngest answer the phone and some strange way we ended up on me telling her to SAY NO TO DRUGS as a joke. She was like  Um I know to say NO to Drugs, NO to Sex and NO to anything I don’t want to do. And I know where all my NO NO  Spots are! WTH!! **no no spots (too cute) shrugs…maybe just to me.

Funny my son text me and I swear the boy been reading my blogs because he refers to his sistas as the BRATZ! He tells me often he do not want any children ever because of them! LOL  (he’s only 12)

I’ve been getting messages from an old friend and Um think it’s time he knows that he has been placed in the friendzone and his chances of getting a piece of ass from me has went from slim to none to none! OOPS, SORRY!

I just been having so many interesting things happen over the last few days all of which is helping me decide to move forward with the next step in my life!

 

 

 
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Posted by on March 10, 2012 in Life, LOVE, PARENTING

 

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