Do Men fake orgasm or any pleasure during sex? I know women does this on s regular but just wondering about men. If so, why?
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Its been 3 months since I had a throbbing rock hard penis inside me. YEAH 3 MONTHS… see this what games get you, a lonely pussy. Well in the middle of my relationship I played lets wait til marriage game to speed the ring up. Ha…well I got the ring but lost the dick…good dick too. Now he is a church man so of course the bible play a role in this as well…but shit lets be honest even the Bible cant keep most men from some good juicy tight pussy, right?
So what is really going on???
Cheating is always an option,
toys. Or leaving…but like a spoiled child throw
ing a tantrum I dont want no fucking rubber dick inside of me…I need the warmth of a real man inside of me and HELL NO LEAVING is out of the question…because
sheSerenity is finally comfortable financially in my oversize home provided by the Mister
…Now cheating might take another blog post…lol
Lets fast forward…Im done playing cat and mouse with my victim. He wants this pussy and I am going to surrender to his lustful wants. Standing in his kitchen it gets heated as he rubs across me with his obvious erection peeking through his pants. He kiss me & well I kiss him back. Im wearing a fitted skirt without panties. I whisper in his ear…panting the chase is over lets fuck! His eyes widen because he never heard me speak so boldly and unlady like…
Leading me to the bedroom, I pause in the living room kneeling down and unzip his pants. I pull out his pretty dark skin penis. With one stroke firmly on his shaft and a soft massage of his sack…I put him inside my mouth, all of him! His eyes roll as he moan as his penis hit the back of my throat…2 b continued
All I hear now is he wants me to give him some “Becky” for those of you that haven’t heard this song by plies, this is just a cute way for a man to say he wants a blow job! Laughs! And I call Blow Bubbles in it Charlie when a man pleasure a woman orally between your legs…Got it? Good! Okay lets talk…
First of all let me say this I wouldn’t encourage anyone to go around sucking Charlies like their blow pops…I mean really that’s nasty. Yet, I’m just saying its okay to try something new with your husband or long-term mate. I know some females that hate the fact “Becky” was ever mentioned. Stop gagging in your thoughts! Your partner should not want you to feel uncomfortable with anything just to please themselves that’s just selfish and not wanting to please your mate can also be a form of selfishness.
I say this if she wasn’t doing it before you guys got married or in a long-term relationship , then guess what, game over you can’t make it a requirement now! Ladies if you was sucking him blue to get him hooked and then decided now you got him you are not going to even sniff the Charlie guess what…your going to have problems!!! Its sorta like when they start out sending you roses and after you say I love you…they don’t send you shit again…*winks* Yeah that pisses us off right?
Married women…this will have to be a blog all by itself…this is your husband! There shouldn’t be an inch of his body you haven’t explored. Love that man pleasure him…make his toes curl…whatever- don’t let the neighbor do it! I know some of you are saying go ahead let them because I aint putting my mouth on his nasty Charlie! Shaking my head, it’s not nasty if you rinse if off! Laughs!
Men, oh my Men! I must say I’m not a big fan on just plain oh head…but Blow Bubbles in it Charlie can be a plus at times…I mean put your finger in it, blow on it, taste it and pleasure me…I just rather you be upfront and say I don’t know what I’m doing before you attempt this trick…Women hate it when you don’t know what you are doing and mostly when you can’t follow directions. Honestly speaking, I think it’s some women who are just as aggressive about making this a requirement as the men are! Ladies every man don’t eat kitty litter! HA! I see you saying they don’t? Why? Looking like Curious George…You guys are too funny!
Well I must go now…and no I’m not going to give some “BECKY”!
I was reading this book Huslin’ Divas and this character in the book only like sexing his girl in her butt and it made me think…hmmm
If I am dealing with a dude and all he ever want is to pump me in my ass, I’m going to question his manhood, I’m sorry! First off no offense but Serenity is not even going to allow you in her booty. I don’t knock it for the brave ones that take it up the butt, I just can’t! **ouch** sounds painful for real.
So my question is to you guys is this—–Should a man be questioned if all he likes is anal sex? And besides it being tighter why do men like this type of sex? This shit is nasty (for a straight man to find so much pleasure in this) and I don’t care how you look at it but just maybe someone can enlighten me on this…maybe I’m missing something.
Well in addition to the move I have a new baby in the house. After nosey ass people kept annoying me by trying ti figure out why I was on medical leave. I decided to post pics of my new baby on facebook and let the rumors flow. I know it was an immature act but they ass should not be so nosey. Lmao!!!
And he is my new reborn doll! Smh
I was about 23 years old living the married life with kids. I had a group of coworkers that I seldom chatted with at work. There was this one chic lets call her Melissa who said she was the baddest at giving head. Well the men on the job confirmed her story they said this girl had a mouth on her that made them want to just bust thinking about how good she was. I was like WOW! Now, I am a pleaser by nature in the bedroom but I thought putting my precious lips around my husband penis had to be the most degrading thing ever. And God forbid he spit up (cum) in my mouth, gagging thoughts! But then she made the shit sound so good like a commercial for sucking dick. So I thought well maybe I should try it, maybe my husband would like it, maybe if I pushed all the nasty thoughts out of my head I could do it…I mean back then Black women was not big on this and the ones who did kept this a secret!
So one night I told my husband baby I want to try something tonight. His eyes widen like oh okay, shocked because at this point riding him or letting him hit it from the back was like a special treat. Poor man had to be bored to death-we had been sexing since I was 16! Anyways….He laid back and I had a wash cloth side the bed (smdh) I started with the soft kisses up and down his shaft then I remembered she said the head of his penis is the focus area so I wrapped my lips around it and walla suck suck like it was a pacifier. Then go figure Miss clean freak wiped the penis off every five seconds, hell I didn’t know that was a turn off.
At first he was all in to it then later he asked where did I get this from…my eyes looking disappointed as if I was a child being punished by her father. Then he said he doesn’t want me to do that to him, that he felt bad that his wife was doing that…bullshit! He just had not had it done right!
And like they all say practice makes perfect and only a failure is one who doesn’t try! Then I listen to my coworker and went back again but this time I left the wash cloth alone and made them damn toes curl…. Ahhh it wasn’t so bad after a good drink. And just like that I learn to slob on the knob and nope it wasn’t something I broadcasted yet I felt confident that I was becoming the freak that my man needed me to be! LOL
Well, I’ve decided to tell dude that I’m moving on. I realized the other day that he wants to control me with material things, such as the ring, the house. He wanted me to audition or jump hoops for it. I’m not that kind of girl. And I can’t lie getting out a little more and realizing there is a lot more guys out there helped me say it’s over. Not because I think the grass is greener but because I have not explored at all since my divorce. I went from divorce to this guy. I’m sure I will find another guy that will impress me and make me reconsider falling in love again but for now I just want to sample life.
The new guy lingers around but more so on friend type level. This guy is highly intelligent and has been a useful resource at the moment. He has made it no secret that when I’m ready to cross the line he is down with it but he respects my stand on things right now. Besides, he is not waiting around on any chic either, in fact I think we are in the same place as far as relationship goes…but I’m not investing much energy in that area.
I’m getting ready to get out more with the girls. I want to focus on my next career move as I have set a goal for the next 6-12 months. I want to make a power move. And been in a very emotional state with love shit does not help me get there. So there it is…
Serenity Single Again and leaving her options open…
Give head with Altoids or peppermint- it makes their toes curl.
Ride that stick backwards stretch out bounce hard & make that thang pop
Plunge fu%&- you lay down and he stand up holding your legs up and he drop down in you…kinda hard to describe in words
Role play…need I say more
Alum(found in the grocery store on the seasoning isle) is the key ingredient to all these gels u buy out of sex stores. You can put in your bath water and soak and not too much… Now if you real sensitive I would not try it.
I’m not saying I’m horrible in bed. I’m just saying I know I have a one helluva talk game. Some men like a good tease but they want a good lay at the end. Most people who read my blog would think I’m very hot and ready at all times. I’m so opposite. I must have more of a connection with you past the physical. Now, don’t get me wrong, I know immediately in most cases if I want a guy to bang my guts in or make slow love to me at first sight. However, if I reacted on every tingle or twitch between my legs I would be some type of whore, I think! LOL… In fact, I am well-known for having more Dicks left standing than the average chic because I love to tease. Is this a form of immaturity? Probably but who cares…Oh probably the dude with the blue balls. HaHa
I think initially I am a better tease than lover. I can talk more shit than I can back up, initially! Once I am comfortable she seems to come out, yeah her, my inner freak! Don’t act like you don’t have one we all do…it just take the right person to bring it up out of you.
My problem is that I been with the same man for so long and though I prefer not to give an exact number of partners I have I am not ashamed of the number because trust me it’s not enough to brag on! The lack of experience makes me a bit reluctant to just jump straight into things with a guy even if I am really feeling him that way. Especially after I hear all the wild stories people tell about their sex life…They make sucking dicks with peppermints seem like something simple.
This was my random thought for the day…
This week I will be listing my favorite bloggers again…I haven’t did that in a while and some links to some of my favorite post too…can’t say what day yet.