Always say Yes and never say No! Bet I just raised your eyebrows here…Well women love to lock down the sex when their hubby pisses them off. Let me tell you what kept my marriage strong for over 13 years! I know women work off of emotions so it is very hard to do this but it’s a must most of the time. We would be going through I’m not really talking to you phase! Y’all know what I’m talking about when you walking around pouting, going to bed in your granny pajamas, rolling your eyes, making deep sighs and shit. Well after a day or so I would get that tap on the shoulder and I would be his wife and do my job! I would give him the best sex he’s had in a long time. You know that kind where the sheets are dripping wet, your hair is straight on your head and his ass can’t even move because he done fell asleep, toes curled type of sex. Then, he would assume I’m over whatever the debate was prior to sex…NOPE! I would then ignore his ass as if sex didn’t happen. This just totally fucked him up. Before I know it he is eating out of the palm of my hands and I felt better. I know some of you would say you shouldn’t play games in your marriage…Okay well that’s your boring thoughts. If you know like I know you better keep your relationship interesting. In marriage/long-term relationships you have to keep the excitement going…keep them on a high. Boredom brings problems. 
Sex is very important in a marriage! I would do silly stuff like send him a text while he watching the game with the boys and tell him what I would be wearing and what I wanted to do to him when he gets home. Then let him enjoy his time and I never could figure out why sometimes he would be in my bed during half time or sometimes before the game was over he was home! LOL! Now I’m not saying be a damn bug-a-boo and go calling your man every time he goes out because this becomes routine and loses its effects and it’s then called insecure chic.
If your man like for you to give him oral pleasure, well if your husband, then what’s the problem. Do it! And be damn good at it! There are things you can use to for flavor or to make him extra sensitive so you don’t have to get lock-jaw! HA! And well if you don’t want to don’t worry another chic might help you out…your choice! Because men who loves this will eventually get it done elsewhere.
And if you did all these special tricks for him while you dating don’t stop when you get married! Um…Please Don’t STOP! Divorce rates stay up and you don’t want to fall in that category! 
