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BEWARE of the MAINTENANCE MAN

10 Aug

Women tend to find a maintenance man when their husband or long-term partner is not satisfying their emotional needs but not limited to physical needs (this is less often). Being that women are more in touch with their emotional side than the physical they need more attention that way. Anyhow, the maintenance man knows his role and will play his part when ultimately he is just there to get a free fuck!

Do you really think he gives a damn about how your husband never buy you flowers or how he hasn’t complimented you in months? Um NO! Do you really think he cares how your day went at work? NO again! He knows you are in a vulnerable state and you need someone to listen but at the end of the day you will reward him with some of the best sex ever because you feel he has given you a release you needed & now you owe him his.

Twist~ There are times when the maintenance man will become attached. Even though he is probably more attached to the good sex, he will demand more time and this is when the shit gets complicated. Cheating never pays off in the end. I can promise you that. Now Men are usually not messy like women, so no he won’t call your dude and leave trashy messages but he will demand more time to fuck you in all types of positions and careless of your time restraints. At the end of the day the Maintenance Man become more of a liability than you thought it would be… so what’s the point of having one.

Speaking of the sexual part- if the reason for the Maintenance Man is sex it’s usually because the man at home is constantly making love to his wife or woman and not hardcore fucking her from time to time. A woman needs to be fucked randomly this keep us wanting more. Most men are afraid to go there with their trophy wife. And well the next man will bang her brains out and she will feel like it is Christmas!

How about you learn how to effectively communicate to your mate? Tell him what your needs are and which ones he is not meeting. Give him time to correct this and try to help him. Especially if it’s sex…you can teach a man easily how to please you provided he is already blessed with the proper tools! (giggles) Emotional needs may require a little more time and effort but can be accomplished. Yet, if none of this works then don’t get a Maintenance Man, find a Replacement!

 

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Posted by on August 10, 2012 in GROWN & SEXY, LOVE

 

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6 Responses to BEWARE of the MAINTENANCE MAN

  1. Mz. Bambi

    August 12, 2012 at 9:06 am

    People believe that when their mate isn’t doing something they like, going to the third party is the solution, when this isn’t the case. I agree with you..communicate with your partner..let them know what it is that they’re not doing because how do you expect someone to adust if they don’t know what’s wrong from the jump?

    The grass isn’t always greener on the other side at the end of the day..

    Loving the post!!

     
    • serenityluv1

      August 12, 2012 at 9:37 am

      Thanks Ma’am! You are so right…the grass in not greener in most cases just another shade of green. I’m on some new shit now, Imma tell your ass once maybe twice if I am really feeling you then after that you got to go… my time is valuable.

       
      • Mz. Bambi

        August 12, 2012 at 9:39 am

        Yeah..the common courtesy of 1-2 warnings is fair enough. Hell..I before wouldn’t even give 1 warning..just “dismiss” that ass!! lol

         
      • serenityluv1

        August 12, 2012 at 9:41 am

        Well this is all new to me now. Shit I was with the same dude for 17 years so now I’m like Damn, these dudes are too much out here! lol

         
      • Mz. Bambi

        August 12, 2012 at 9:43 am

        dammmmn@17 yrs..see..yea..I would have poured hot grits on that ass..17yrs of my life I can’t get back?! shidddd…lol..yeah the quality of men now..shit you gotta cut your losses quick!

         
  2. bossymoksie

    August 15, 2012 at 12:02 pm

    I love this post. I too try to give the dude I’m with a chance to correct things. But 3 strikes and your out!!!
    I call men like that scavengers, just trying to get laid from vulnerable women. Boo.

     

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