This doesn’t take a book to write. When you want more from your man the answer is simple just do less. Yes, I said less. The more you do the less he does. Men are so funny that way. For example, you have been dating over a year and he is not giving you as much attention as you would like or as he use to. Instead of nagging, bitching and throwing a teenage tantrum, simple back up, relax and calm the hell down. Take more time for yourself, don’t be so available all the time. It’s okay to miss a few of his calls, delayed response to text is helpful as well. This makes him wonder and puts the challenge & the chase back into the game for him. Men need this being they are hunters by nature. I’m not telling you something that I haven’t tried myself! Now don’t over do it and as my kids say (don’t give him too much)! LOL! Be sure to return his call at some point within the day. Now I have one exception on this…my dude had got a habit of calling me late at night…Um no! I sleep early and he needs to be broken of this bullshit so I politely let my phone rang. He gets a call in the AM or a text that says oh seen where you called but I was sleep, wassup? Yeah…now he calls a little earlier.
Just a thought for today….
Socialkenny
August 9, 2012 at 12:06 pm
Never thought the day would come when I’d agree with you lol.I guess today is that day.
Although this’ manipulative,I can see how it works to stir the dude to action.You’re such a dirty devil.
serenityluv1
August 9, 2012 at 12:16 pm
Yay! Im so excited. Winks… I know my men
Socialkenny
August 9, 2012 at 12:22 pm
I’d e-mailed you.Did you get it?Check you e-mail or spam or something.
serenityluv1
August 9, 2012 at 12:59 pm
Sorry I was at lunch… Driving and reading dont work. I got it tho Boss Man.
bossymoksie
August 9, 2012 at 12:32 pm
Truth! Men don’t listen to words, they listen to actions!!!! When they notice the space you’re giving them,THEN they wanna know what’s going on. But girls usually want to do more bending over backwards and hope he follows suit. He won’t!
serenityluv1
August 9, 2012 at 12:55 pm
You are on point again. I dont bend over backwards unless Im being served. I dont play that shit…
Socialkenny
August 9, 2012 at 2:25 pm
Yall may not believe it,but women are even more susceptible to this form of thing.Well that’s at least if she’s into the guy.
serenityluv1
August 9, 2012 at 3:02 pm
Oh I believe. Sadly to say most tricks work on us women because we are so damn emotional. Not me of course. Hehe
bossymoksie
August 9, 2012 at 8:56 pm
Shit. That’s true too!
Socialkenny
August 9, 2012 at 2:23 pm
Ok cool.Thought you were a multi-tasker.
trippadvice
August 9, 2012 at 2:56 pm
Well, you’re spot on. We will notice when things are off. Backing away or showing a little less interest will make us say, “what the fuck is going on?!”
serenityluv1
August 9, 2012 at 3:01 pm
I know this too well. It always works unless he doesnt like you at all.
Socialkenny
August 9, 2012 at 3:36 pm
Tripp is right.
But I do find that chics are more gullible to this sort of push-pull as we call it in seduction.
serenityluv1
August 9, 2012 at 3:50 pm
See this is why I follow you guys to stay on top of my game. Always good to hear how men think.
The Reemachronicles
August 9, 2012 at 8:18 pm
We do live in a thirsty, cupcaking environment. When you have to chase a little, it’s cool in the game.
mp11312
August 10, 2012 at 12:31 am
Definitely agree, it’s only fair. This is in a relationship though, if you’re in a dating stage there should be no expectations right?
serenityluv1
August 10, 2012 at 4:47 am
This apply to dating too but mostly in relationships. The thing is, people always have some type of expectations rather they admit to them or not.