My heart is pounding it’s been nearly three weeks since I’ve seen him. Every day feeling like a week since our last encounter. I’m thinking what should I wear, how should I do my hair, which fragrance shall I bathe in today?! Will he be just as excited to see me as I am to see him? Of course he has seen me without make up and even without my hair done. So something simple and cute would just do…but who wants something simple, holy shit, it’s been nearly a month! Flips thru my closet almost in a panic. Calm the fuck down, I tell myself it’s just him!!!

This brings me to my post today…Keeping it tight, keeping it right! When he met me he was attracted to my confidence, my boldness and my hella walk. Why fall off now because I got a key to his heart now. Women are notorious for this…going from the bold and the beautiful to the young and the restless in a matter of months. Don’t you want an immediate raise when you walk in the room? Well honey that tired ass pony tail and scarf on your head won’t get you there. LOL! Don’t get me wrong sometimes a tank top and some jeans or fitted capris might be cute on a Saturday morning after a long week. When a man love you he loves you no matter what, right? YES. But to keep his attention it requires keeping yourself up. I can’t lie I’m the first one to admit it’s hard as hell for me because I’m such a laid back jean & tank top type of girl. Boy shorts & a push-up bra vs a thong and bra-less! Not that you can’t be cute in jeans and a tank top, but sometimes you gotta switch things up on them. Pay attention to what your man likes to see you in. I just have learned to keep that WOW factor alive in my relationship.

So yesterday I went to the salon and had my naturally permed hair done to perfection, just the way he likes it…straight and blowing in the wind and no weave. He loves my hair. I’ll take the time to make up my face not to the point where I look like I’m auditioning for bozo the clown, but just enough to hide a few imperfections. Lip gloss is a must make him want to kiss me! HAHA! And I will find something that will say I’m young, hot and still fuckable!  Yup, FUCKABLE!

**keeping yourself is not limited to clothes, hair and shoes but also include your health, fitness, & mental state**