You would think Men would like for their woman to be mild and soft-spoken, submissive and catering to his every need, right? HELL NO! They will tell you that shit but it’s bullshit. Just try it for a week, I dare you and your ass will be bored, ignored and he will be acting like an ass. Just as soon as you get a tad bit bitchy, or spicy with his ass, disagree with every other word, you getting roses, flowers and good sex. WTF! I don’t understand… Does this change as men mature? Maybe, but do they ever really mature? Hmm…
Okay, before I get slammed with rude remarks from the men, let me be clear on this… Most men who are not ready to settle and do not know what they really want from a woman don’t seem to find a balance in relationships. They tend to cling to drama, very opposite from what they say to their homeboys and you if you ask them. They respond quicker to a woman who don’t take shit than one who will lay down for him… I am not talking out of my ass but what I know, from what I have experienced. Now once you meet a man who is more settled and knows what he wants from a woman he will be more balanced. Let’s not get it twisted though he too, will desire a little bit of spice as well though. You just have to keep men on their toes…they love challenges. Just don’t give them too much if you want to keep them around.
How to submit to your man next…
Socialkenny
July 4, 2012 at 6:31 pm
Once again:you’re wrong.
Men do want a submissive girlie woman.
It’s not bullshit.
Any man who wants a rough woman is either gay or either massively gay.
I mean,we don’t want a chic who’s a total pushover,but we definitely want a chic who’s soft,docile,subordinate and submissive..
serenityluv1
July 4, 2012 at 6:47 pm
You are a prime example of what I’m saying…You want me so bad, you drewl everytime you comment. You like my spice, this attitude I give you. LOL
Seriously, I am right. Mature men, don’t want too much attitude but they do like a bit of a challenge from their woman. No they don’t want a hardcore chic who got to always have the last word but they don’t want a yes sir girl either! But immature men who doesn’t know what they want…seem to like us rough!
Socialkenny
July 5, 2012 at 5:47 am
Lol you got me all figured out by now.
serenityluv1
July 5, 2012 at 5:50 am
Yup! Lol
abichica
July 4, 2012 at 10:50 pm
i dont think its only men, i think also some women love a man who is bad to them, treats them like crap and ignores them… then they will cling to him for dear life.. so maybe it’s just that humans want whats hard to get..
serenityluv1
July 5, 2012 at 12:25 am
Well when you put it that way you are so right. Its like the song Mr Wrong…we be so in love with Mr. Wrong.
abichica
July 5, 2012 at 4:57 am
very true..
The Science of Natural Game
July 5, 2012 at 1:14 am
All men want a feminine woman(not feminist) but that doesn’t mean they necessarily want a “girlie” woman. I don’t want a completely submissive woman, that shit would get boring, I want some tension there so sex will be good. No tension = horrible sex.
Everything needs to be done in the proper doses from fucking cursing to sleeping to attitude. I want a woman who will challenge me but do it in a respectable approachable way. Of course I’m very open, humble, and honest so I am easier to deal with. I don’t want a woman who agrees with everything I say or disagrees with everything I say, I want her to be her own person who I align in many other ways with.
One thing that was ridiculous was your statement on men needing drama, WOMEN need drama. Look at tv shows aimed at women, they are always drama based. People in general need drama, but women need it more than men. I am not trying to be sexist, they do, it sucks but women need more drama doll.
When a man goes out with his buddy and they get in an argument it’s who cares the next day, a woman resents that woman forever after more often.
Some people need drama more than others, pretty simple.
serenityluv1
July 5, 2012 at 5:47 am
I really appreciate the comment. I think we almost agree just saying a bit different. Lmao at women needs drama more, well if we base it off tv, you are so right. Some women does love drama but not me I hate it. I dont even like to argue. Unless its with Kenny! Just kidding…
The Science of Natural Game
July 5, 2012 at 6:00 am
Well I was pointing out that drama’s are considered “chick flicks” and you end with the Kardashian show, Sex and the City, etc. Look at the woman’s network and the type of stuff they lean toward.They are all supported off of females who love the drama. I’m not say all women love it, it really is person to person but I would say women love emotion more than men, good and the bad.
I’m nearly positive women tend to enjoy reality shows and make up a larger percentage of the viewers. Just two different being made for different purposes, we enjoy different things. I’m not judging women for being emotional merely accepting it, I don’t see it as a negative because sometimes it is a huge positive.
serenityluv1
July 5, 2012 at 7:04 am
And it’s sad but true! Me & my girlfriends talk so badly about these Drama filled reality shows but guess what we are watching every season still. Why is that I wonder? Maybe I don’t like the drama in my personal life but don’t mind watching it…shaking my head over here…
Socialkenny
July 5, 2012 at 5:49 am
Good breakdown:you said it better than I did.
Men definitely don’t want nor need drama.That is totally the female’s angle.
offdadome
July 5, 2012 at 11:24 am
Inasmuch as dudes claim they want a delicate flower, that shit is only temporary and will get old very fast, you are so right about them wanting a challenge!
serenityluv1
July 5, 2012 at 11:51 am
I knew my ladies would agree!! Woohoo.
offdadome
July 5, 2012 at 6:19 pm
I got u lol
bossymoksie
July 5, 2012 at 7:14 pm
You are so right! I have friends who are so nice, submissive, sweet, thoughtful…and dumped all the time. I can be a complete bitch and guys will still chase me after I’ve dumped them! I think guys get bored with all that crap! Just like girls get bored with guys who are too nice all the time.
serenityluv1
July 5, 2012 at 7:24 pm
Exactly!!! Thats why you must keep a balance. Not too much but just enuff…make them thirsty for more! Lol
mp11312
July 7, 2012 at 12:19 am
Definitely agree. I would love a sweet and submissive girl, but no one but “daddy” type guys want that all the time. I’d get bored quickly like everyone else said. Just a little bit of variety keeps things fresh, but definitely no DRAMA!
serenityluv1
July 7, 2012 at 8:23 am
Thanks for the honesty bro! Wink
The Reemachronicles
July 10, 2012 at 5:24 pm
Men just want women to show respect, be nurturing and for you to keep your look right. If you follow that, you will never have any issues
serenityluv1
July 10, 2012 at 7:56 pm
Ahhh where have you been?
Keeping our look right is very important but we so often start to slack once we think we have our man locked in.
The Reemachronicles
July 10, 2012 at 8:07 pm
I’ve been on vacation but I’m back in business…I’ve always been a healthy eater so I just brought that lifestyle to my girl. Women will always follow our ideas and characteristics. Don’t worry I’m back with some good game tomorrow
serenityluv1
July 11, 2012 at 6:16 am
That’s funny you say that because my guy doesn’t eat pork and eat pretty healthy and I slowly adopted his eating habits without knowing…but I lost a lot of weight when he was doing most of the cooking too. So yes we will follow our men ideas…Glad you are back!!
Chicago-Style Girl
July 10, 2012 at 9:48 pm
My husband if definitely the head of the house, but if I went all church mouse on his ass, he’d be bored as hell with me. Any man who wants a pushover is usually the type who doesn’t bother to think through anything and therefore would prefer to not have a challenge.
serenityluv1
July 11, 2012 at 6:15 am
That’s good. Yes most men don’t want a yes-girl no matter what they say.