Isn’t this the truth. I think we all have done some things, ruin some relationships that we wished like hell we hadn’t! Then they are a few that we are still holding on to that we need to set a torch to the them! **giggles** Yet most of us are in current relationships and we just don’t know what the hell to do. I hear people say I was at a crossroad. Well I just found out what that mean. When I came to face reality, when I was just slapped with some old dangling feelings, I almost fell backwards. I almost felt sorry for my past and gave up my future. It took a day of sadness a day of hardcore thinking to make me realize there is no point in going backwards. If a person wrong you once without remorse and never admit they wronged you they will damn sure do it again! Welp! If my words are unclear here it’s because I am talking from my head (and that just should say enuff, shit I’m crazy) LOL!
Seriously though don’t keep holding on to things that hold no value or can not add value in your life. Sometimes you have to continue to love people from a distance because they don’t mean you any good. People will look to you just because they need you and when they get up on their feet they will give you their ass to kiss. This applies to family, friends, grown children and lovers. Live your life to your benefit. And my all time favorite motto:
One should never have to compromise their own happiness for someone else~
offdadome
March 6, 2012 at 4:30 pm
I can always count on you to read my mind and blog about it, thanks girl!!!
serenityluv1
March 6, 2012 at 6:45 pm
LOL! I guess we are on the same page…
Mz. Bambi
March 6, 2012 at 10:16 pm
I love it! You spoke from your heart and from experience, which makes it that much more real. I agree with you – you can’t expect people to love you in a way that you love them..they will learn to disappoint you greatly! Love without expecting to receive it back..
serenityluv1
March 7, 2012 at 5:13 am
Thanks, glad you enjoyed it.
mp11312
March 7, 2012 at 11:16 am
You preached the gospel on this one sis! Absolutely love it…..
bossymoksie
July 1, 2012 at 10:44 pm
I agree with your last quote! I have no problems burning bridges with people who are a pain in the ass. Pain= get rid of them! Simple.(for me)
I’ve nominated you for a blog award. Check it out here:
http://bossymoksie.wordpress.com/2012/07/01/and-its-not-even-my-birthday/
serenityluv1
July 2, 2012 at 6:03 am
Wow! Thank you! I will be reading more of your blog today. AND yes some people you want to burn. Lol
mp11312
July 1, 2012 at 11:09 pm
Reblogged this on Black Men UNCENSORED and commented:
Some of the truest shit I’ve ever read!
serenityluv1
July 2, 2012 at 6:04 am
Thanks for the reblog. Im so behind on my blogging. Ill get caught up soon.