Reemachronicles posted STOP BEING DOMINATED BY YOUR WOMAN & I’m saying Women must control their Man in way that he doesn’t feel dominated; simply because I believe behind every good man is a strong woman and they need us to control them!
See some women take things to the extreme. I am not telling you to become your Man mother or be disrespectful. I’m simply saying you have to make him feel that he is the Man of the house in control when you are dictating his actions without him knowing. Example: You want your husband to start doing the yard every week instead of every other week…so instead of saying…damn mutha fucka can’t you do the yard every week with your lazy ass. You say sweetie, honey or whatever pet name you call him you think we can start doing the yard weekly and then he may give you slack and this alone probably won’t motivate him…so what you do is just sit down and be quiet. The next time he does the yard make a big deal about how nice it looks, how you love when he does the yard and give him a treat, rather it be a nice cooked meal or a slobbing blow job! Aye you gotta do what you gotta do…Now watch how often he begin to do this yard. And even though Men like Reema teaches other men not to be controlled by sex…they still will be! Pussy is Power, remember that...
Women stop withholding the sex! They expect us to do this when we are mad. I was married for 17 years and when I stop withholding sex we were headed into divorce. This is what you do and it can be more powerful if done correctly. He piss you off and he knows you mad and probably not going to give him none but Men are like children so he will test the waters anyway.. Well you spread them legs wider than ever before, ride that dick til its sore, ride it backwards, bounce up and down on it! Then you shower and roll over without any desire for cuddle, they next morning he will be looking for everything to be all good, don’t you say a word to his ass. Now you done fucked his head up he is wondering what the hell just happen. Then come home a minute or two late. Let his mind wonder. He will do what it takes to get back into good graces because all he will be thinking to his self is, damn, another man will have all my good pussy if I don’t get this shit right.
Okay know this as well women! You must learn your man, know what works for you. The same tricks don’t work for every man. And as they become conditioned to your methods they will become immune so this is why you should never keep things the same, switch things up sometimes. Men can get bored very quickly. This is just a few ways to stay in control of your man without him even knowing.
Wait! One more thing-women please stop creating big scenes in front of the public. You should always treat your husband and man like a King in front of family & friends. The less in your business the better and besides when he run to tell them how wicked you are they will defend you because in their eyes you are a man’s dream. LOL!
Just some of my thoughts.
**I forgot to add this important piece** Remember to always keep a balance in all you do though. You don’t want a man that you have to totally control. You want your man to be a Man and be able to protect you and/or think without you…so control him on things needed but not all things. No real woman want a weak man…
kamillaberdin
June 24, 2012 at 6:07 pm
Very interesting take on relationships. I think that everyone is more enticed to do something when they are asked nicely, not even at home but with children, at work and with other family members.
serenityluv1
June 24, 2012 at 6:20 pm
That is true. Like I mentioned men are very much like children at times. Yes I have tried the nice method with my children such as with their chores. When they do them very well…I go on & on about them and then I do something special for them sometimes so they feel appreciated. We just all need to find what works for us and our family. Thanks for the comment!
Socialkenny
June 24, 2012 at 6:23 pm
Control your man?
We’ll see how this one goes down.
serenityluv1
June 24, 2012 at 7:01 pm
LOL!! It’s been going down for ages now…I’ll tame your lil ass turn u into a BETA…or whateva u call it! HAHA
mp11312
June 24, 2012 at 7:42 pm
I actually agree with most of what was said here….excellent post Serenity…but I wouldn’t call it control, what you’re describing is how an ideal marraige should go
serenityluv1
June 24, 2012 at 8:09 pm
Thanks! Wow! Im glad to see a man agree and in public! Lol
mp11312
June 25, 2012 at 1:06 am
Remember this day because it’s not often when this shit will happen lol
serenityluv1
June 25, 2012 at 5:50 am
I’m recording the moment. smiles
bogspua
June 25, 2012 at 8:37 am
Imho the biggest problem with your post is the mindset that sex is something that you give rather something that is been shared between people.
serenityluv1
June 25, 2012 at 8:44 am
Well I probably represent half the nation with that mindset, unfortunately! Now when it comes down to a personal level for me sex is a very personal an intimate moment “shared” between me & my mate its very sacred to me, but those stories will never make it to this blog!
offdadome
June 25, 2012 at 1:49 pm
Been guilty of withholding nana in the past,but it never worked, I guess there is truth in ‘the older you get the more wisdom you gain’, Great post girl!
serenityluv1
June 25, 2012 at 2:03 pm
We all have. I learn that dont work for some men…thanks girl!
The Reemachronicles
June 25, 2012 at 4:30 pm
Men need women to control them? Behind every man is a strong women?? I’m speechless reading this post.
serenityluv1
June 25, 2012 at 4:38 pm
Why? Its the truth…
The Reemachronicles
June 25, 2012 at 4:41 pm
what’s truthful about it? Why do men need women to control them?
serenityluv1
June 25, 2012 at 5:05 pm
Would you feel better if I said you guys need our support our guidance in most cases?
The Reemachronicles
June 25, 2012 at 6:24 pm
Yes of course! No seriously, I just wanted to know where you were getting that from. Personal experience? Chopping it up with other women?
serenityluv1
June 25, 2012 at 6:42 pm
Lol! From experience and from observation of successful marriages. Yeah this is my woman version of the life.
Sandra
October 30, 2012 at 7:47 am
wow im actually going to try this i think it just may work thank you so much thank you thank you girl
serenityluv1
October 30, 2012 at 8:26 am
It really works.