I hate a disrespectful man. I can overlook ignorance on a few occasions but disrespect is something I can’t tolerate. I am full of jokes and I love a man with a great sense a humor, even brutal honesty is okay with me. But Damn it I hate it for a man to call me a Bitch or Hoe or any other name that is not on my birth certificate. When I was younger I would refer myself as being a bitch because I can be bitchy from time to time but then I grew up. I realized that if I refer to myself as a bitch to others then they would feel comfortable with calling me that as well. My girls don’t call me that either! Just as I posted recently about being a Freak is okay…I forgot a very strong point in that post. It’s okay to be a lot of things behind closed doors with your husband or long-term mate. He can slap me on my ass and call me freaky or say I’m a freak but he dare not to call me that in public. I just have standards as I hope each and every woman should. I don’t knock others style but I just don’t get down like that…
I handle myself with much class and I can’t fit into any situation, rather it is business casual, executive professional, or ghetto fabulous! But no matter what the situation is I am always going to be a lady with a touch of class and I will be treated as such. If you fail to respond to me in such way then you must become a NON_FACTOR in my life.
**random thoughts**
Socialkenny
March 4, 2012 at 4:18 pm
Women get so pissed off being called bitches.
To me,it shouldn’t be a big deal.It’s just a female dog.Men won’t get offended if yall were to call us dogs(which yall do and we don’t get offended).
myinkandquill
March 4, 2012 at 4:38 pm
I do not believe calling a woman a bitch has the same intent in the meaning as calling men or women a dog.
I can honestly say I have seldom if ever used the bitch word, but on the super rare occasion when I have, you can bet I did not mean to imply she reminded me of snoopy!
serenityluv1
March 4, 2012 at 5:03 pm
Laughs @ snoopy part! Exactly…I find it very disrespectful and I do not believe one would like to hear their mother or daughter being called a bitch by another man. Some women think its funny or cute but I find it just out right disrespectful. I don’t care if you say it with a smile I will still take it the same way. DISRESPECTFUL
serenityluv1
March 4, 2012 at 4:38 pm
Well in my world that I live in…I don’t like it and will not accept it and that is not up for a debate.
offdadome
March 4, 2012 at 6:20 pm
who you calling a bitch (busts out dancing to Latifah’s U.N.I.T.Y),okay I’m done, yup respect is huge and should be reciprocal.
serenityluv1
March 4, 2012 at 6:29 pm
LOL!!! Girl I damn near spit my drink out on that one!!! I remember that song…
bogspua
March 4, 2012 at 6:51 pm
I am not sure about calling her bitch, but I been known calling chicks smart ass or asshole in a joking funny way to put her on her place, hot chick just not used to guy calling her that way, the facial expression is always priceless, they just cannot believe that it is actually happening lol
serenityluv1
March 4, 2012 at 6:54 pm
Well hell we can’t be exempt from all things. I can deal with an asshole or smart ass or even telling me to kick rocks in the middle of a heated conversation or joke…but just to refer to me as a BITCH or Hoe is a problem for me. It just don’t set well.
serenityluv1
March 4, 2012 at 6:55 pm
Now if we are writing a post and telling a story I mean hey I get that I am talking about in a personal conversation. I am not the one to be all holy and stuff! LOl
Jenzy
March 4, 2012 at 6:56 pm
“It’s okay to be a lot of things behind closed doors with your husband or long-term mate.”
I soo agree!
serenityluv1
March 5, 2012 at 2:02 am
Thanks Jenzy!
mp11312
March 4, 2012 at 11:02 pm
Yeah, there’s a social taboo with the word bitch, I hate just using it even in a post unless I really want to emphasize something. That’s about the only time I’ll use it, and even then I won’t use it amongst the general public.
It’s kind of like coaching football to me – I will never humiliate one of my players or my team in front of everyone, but in private I will rip their ass a new one, lol……
serenityluv1
March 5, 2012 at 2:03 am
See most men don’t think I am crazy….only the guilty ones want to try to justify their ignorance! Thanks MP!
The Reemachronicles
March 6, 2012 at 3:01 pm
I didn’t even know guys were stilling calling girls bitches. That seems like a 04 thing.
serenityluv1
March 6, 2012 at 6:45 pm
Guess some people don’t grow up! LOL
marriagecoach1
March 28, 2012 at 9:08 pm
And here is a little known secret by women about men; men need respect even more than they need sex.
John Wilder
serenityluv1
March 28, 2012 at 9:48 pm
Yeah I learned that a long time ago!