Aren’t you tired of being fooled by his/her Representative? Let me explain. When you first meet a person you don’t really meet them you meet their fake ass representative. You know the person they want you to believe they are.
Men for example-
- so known for pretending to have so much more than they really have. Like they are ballers with plenty money only to find their ass is just an average salary guy.
- Or they are so into what you like and they adore you…complimenting you on your cute fit and sending you beautiful roses only 3-6 months after to find out they don’t noticed shit about you and roses? bitch please? You won’t get them again!
- They love the way you are but as soon as you tell them you love them-they use this shit as a weapon to convince you to change into doing things you really don’t want to do…
Women for example
- She is such a sweet girl, work hard, cook & clean type chic-gotta love her right? Wrong! This bitch will not cook your ass a hot meal to save your life after 3-6 months. After she suck your dick & lick your balls she know you won’t care so why bother! OOps did you just find out she have slept with not just 1 guy but 1 on every street!
- Miss Independent chic- I got my shit together, pay my own bills drive my own car type chic, take care of my kids all by myself! Hmm. well if you never see the kids it’s because she never have them, check with the nearest neighbor or perhaps her mother house and yeah bitch balling off her baby daddies child support! And the car she drive 2 months behind but right after she fuck you she can get caught up because you will make the payments! LOL
- Miss I can’t find a good guy-This one is too simple. It’s not them it’s her. Do you really think after going through 1,000 different men not one of them was any good?
Alright guys this was just a random thought no editing but hey lets talk about this a little. I would love to hear what you have to say about this one. Also coming up is my new best bloggers post! LOL
abichica
February 18, 2012 at 11:08 am
i totally agree with you, i mean, i might sound naive but when i meet someone they meet the real me, and i dont try to hide anything( a fact that many of my friends have tried to get me to change lol).. but because i am like this i expect for people to be like this as well, and this of course is never the case, then 3 months or say 6 months into knowing someone you start realizing that they are completely different from how you thought they were… so from now on, i have just decided to not have any expectations on anyone i meet for the first time, this way i wont be disappointed..
.. great post
serenityluv1
February 18, 2012 at 1:10 pm
Same here! What u see is what you get, I dont lie it makes no sense to me
roxem
February 18, 2012 at 1:47 pm
I’m the same way… I’m one of the most open people you’d ever meet. I don’t see any point in lying about shit. You are who you are, why the fuck would you hide it?! Friends tell me when I meet a new guy that I wanna get to know that I need to scale it back a bit at first so I don’t freak him out I guess lol.
Why would I do that & waste time on someone just to find out in the end when I show them my real self that they can’t handle me?? It’ll take a man sure in himself & confident in himself to be strong enough to handle me.
I won’t lie about who I am…. if you can’t handle me then please introduce yourself to my front door.
roxem
February 18, 2012 at 1:49 pm
Which this is why I don’t date much. I can tell when you’re not being yourself. I may hang out with you a few times to see if you get comfortable & loosen up… if you don’t then I’m not wasting anyone time on you.
serenityluv1
February 18, 2012 at 7:06 pm
I dont blame you, its a freaking waste! If they not going to come real!!!
Socialkenny
February 18, 2012 at 1:05 pm
Great post boo.It makes a lot of sense and you’re right(not often I admit when you have a point lol).
And that’s why we teach in PUA community that you should never believe shit that a woman says whom you’re chatting up.
serenityluv1
February 18, 2012 at 1:09 pm
Thank u, might be the female version of SocialKenny! Lol
mp11312
February 18, 2012 at 8:22 pm
Love it both sides always have representatives….I’ve dated long enough to look for cracks in the foundation though….
serenityluv1
February 19, 2012 at 9:39 am
Everything I have learned came from my mother and one particular male who schooled me on every game there is…and therefore I am led to say this to you. You might be good but it’s some women who will get you on your best day! Women are so smart and sneaky like cats…you don’t hear us coming! IJS
mp11312
February 19, 2012 at 8:33 pm
Lol, well hopefully my dating days are over….but you’re right, there is always someone better….
serenityluv1
February 20, 2012 at 6:09 am
Ooh you found the golden one, huh? lol
mp11312
February 20, 2012 at 6:54 am
lol, she’s been golden so far, any woman that supports my blog has to be special right? lol
serenityluv1
February 20, 2012 at 8:11 am
Most def! Treat her right!
offdadome
February 19, 2012 at 6:27 pm
Gosh, really do hate this one, hence the reason real relationships are so scarce, everyone is too busy fronting………..smh (I really can’t find a good man though………….just sayin lol)
serenityluv1
February 19, 2012 at 6:50 pm
LOL! You are too funny…just sayin
Princess Laila
February 21, 2012 at 2:48 am
They say it takes 6 months before a person lets their guard down and starts to relax and be themselves. That’s when all fakeness and pretence stops and u start seeing the real person they are. Sometimes it’s not so pretty and sometimes it’s too late by then.
People will say their partner has changed. No they haven’t changed this is the real them.
I’ve had friends who have been upfront and honest and it’s gotten them nowhere.
As for that miss independent. You got that down to a T. I know of one and you described her perfectly. Gosh! You are smart girl!!
serenityluv1
February 21, 2012 at 4:31 am
Yes ma’am 3-6 months is about right! Girl I know quite a few of the miss Independent chics, the worse! LOL!! Thank you for the comment!
The Reemachronicles
April 13, 2012 at 4:16 pm
Wait, how did I miss this…I know as a man, when you first meet a woman you want to have a mysterious vibe. Reveal yourself slowly. As far as acting like a baller, I don’t know about that. That sounds like trick shit.
serenityluv1
April 13, 2012 at 7:22 pm
I don’t think you were following me then…seen someone else post today and thought I’d re-post it! LOL
Good tip on revealing yourself slowly… laughs hard at that trick shit…